Today I found the harsh realities of being a full time working mum quite difficult to take and became quite stressed about it.
I work about an hours drive away from home, so, an hours drive away from my children’s school. Add snow, ice and freezing fog to the “normal” drive to and from work and you can imagine it’s a bit of a trek.
Today whilst at work I received a phone call from my son’s school, saying, “Nothing to worry about but son has stabbed himself in the neck with some pencils and he’s a little upset”
What happened it seemed, is that son was walking in the classroom with a pencil pot and he didn’t see one of the other kids shuffling under a desk after dropping something and tripped over him. Said pencil pot and son went for a tumble and as he fell to the deck, the pencils stuck themselves in the front of his throat causing bleeding and lots of tears.
“I’m coming to get him” I said. Only I have an hours drive…
This then turns into one stressed out mum, trying to drive in the above conditions attempting to get to a crying child after having pencils rammed into his neck.
I struggled to care about the conditions on the road, only concerned with getting to my son and wrapping my arms around him. I had to remind myself as I drove as fast as the conditions would let me, that I wouldn’t be able to soothe him if I was dead in the road, so I tried to hurry and keep safe. The longest hours drive from work I’ve had so far.
He’s fine. He was sat with staff eating his lunch when I got to school. His neck has three small cuts covered by drying blood where the pencils have actually punctured his skin. I’ve given him ibuprofen for the pain and he’s now happily watching Phineas and Ferb as I type and is perfectly ok.
I have to go out to work. I think many families now have two working parents, but today was hard. It wasn’t serious, but it was stressful. I think we both deserve some pampering today.